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What to Do When an Audience Member Disagrees

What to Do When an Audience Member Disagrees
With You During Your Speech
                                                              
                                                               By Mike Moore

Some people enjoy drawing attention to themselves by trying to
trip you up on a fact or statistic during your presentation. A
few will find something you say threatening to their secure
view of the universe and want you to know that “ You are dead
wrong!!” When this happens it is important to remember that
you won’t be able to please everyone in your audience and you
shouldn’t try.   I personally feel that if I don’t say
something that afflicts the comfortable I’m not really doing
my job effectively.

Here is how you minimize the possibility of an verbal attack
coming from a member of your audience who is hell bent to show
you the error of your ways.  And it works extremely well most
of the time. Yes, there are people who only hear what they
want to hear and are just waiting for a chance to make
themselves look cleaver by making you look foolish.

Here is what I say before I begin...
“ I’m here to share with you my thoughts and opinions on
(_________________). If I say something that rings true for
you file it away for further consideration. If  you disagree
with one of my ideas or opinions that’s fine. Just dismiss it
as the musing of a misguided soul. You might just want to take
what rings true and disregard the rest.  I am here to invite
you to consider what I have to say. You must decide whether
you will consume it whole or spit some of it out.”

This usually works for me but once in awhile you get someone
who is so attached to their perception of reality that there
is no room for an opposing opinion. Any disagreement is viewed
as a total violation of all they whole sacred. This is sad,
but true.

I believe that the search for truth is cumulative. When my
perception of truth is added to yours then we come closer to
THE truth. No one has a monopoly on truth or wisdom or insight.
If someone challenges you while you’re giving your talk and
they begin to interfere with the flow of the presentation just
say in a very calm voice, “ I would love to give more time to
your ideas but I only have an hour to give my speech. If you
see me at coffee break I will introduce you to the meeting
planners and perhaps you can talk to them about hiring you to
present at next year’s conference.”  This always solves the
problem.

In  conclusion I want to say that this situation arises very
seldom, but it does arise. When it does I hope these ideas are
as  helpful to you as they are to me.

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Mike Moore is an international speaker on Humor in the
Workplace, Humor and Stress and Humor and Human Potential. His
articles and cartoons have appeared in publications throughout
the world.
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The Path to Profitable Public Speaking

What follows are excerpts form my popular manual " Speaking for Profit and Pleasure"

Every month I receive numerous emails from people all over
North America asking how to get into the business of speaking
for money. To respond to these many inquiries I produced this
popular audio speaking series. Here are seven timely tips
from my audio speaking system, to get you started on the path
to speaking for big money.


1. If you want to become a successful, well paid speaker you
must become well known. Promotion and publicity are vital to
your success.

2. Leave your promotional footprints wherever you go so people
find you easily.

3. After each speech ask those who hired you for a written
testimonial. Use these testimonials, or parts of them, in your
advertising and publicity. I have never had people refuse to
provide a testimonial for me. Sometimes I have had to remind
them, but no one has ever refused.

4.Access free publicity whenever possible. Write and submit
press releases frequently. Writers and editors are always
looking for new story material and your press release could
result in an interview and a story being written about you,
your work and/or your publications.

5. Some new speakers say that it is difficult to establish a
reputation as a speaker when many businesses are reluctant to
hire unknowns to in-service their employees. I solved this
problem by offering to speak free of charge ...with certain
conditions attached of course.

6. To get speaking engagements you must present yourself to
people looking for speakers. Every community has an abundance
of organizations, associations and service groups in need of
speakers for their conferences, banquets and in-service
sessions. Make yourself known to them.


7. Promote yourself and your products within each speech, but
in just the right dosage. Too much self promotion and you can
turn your audience against you. Too little and they might
ignore your products altogether.

Summary... 1. Decide on a topic
2. Prepare a dynamite 45 minute speech on your
chosen topic
3. Make sure it is laced with humor and stories
4. Know it so well that if I woke you and and said
start in at the 10 minute mark you could.
5. Bring it to the local market then the world.
6. Advertise and promote like crazy.
7. Let word of mouth take over.


This is just a sample of what you will learn in my Special Report 121 Secrets to Profitable Speaking " 


Also included in the course are the following topics:

* How to prepare and deliver a great speech * How to really
connect with your audience * How to develop confidence *
Overcoming the fear of public speaking * How to write and
where to send press releases. * How to crack the lucrative
business in-service market * Establishing your fees MUCH MORE

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How to Get Speaking Engagements


Mike Moore is an international voice on the role of
appreciation, praise and humour in performance motivation and
human potential. He has spoken to businesses and organizations
throughout North America. His cartoons and articles have
appeared in magazines, newspapers and online publications
throughout the world.

Confident Public Speaking and The Law of Expectations By Mike Moore

The Law of Expectations states that we move toward and eventually realize what we expect from life. If you expect to be successful, if you work hard to achieve success and if you never give up, you will achieve your expectations.

When you combine the law of expectations with visualization you compound your possibilities. If you expect to be successful and visualize yourself as successful the likelihood of you achieving success is certain. Remember, we tend to become what we expect to become.


When applied to public speaking it looks like this. When you are hired to give a speech expect it to be a sparkling, enthusiastic success. Visualize yourself as an interesting, witty, well informed master of the art who totally enjoys the subject and the audience. Hold this expectation and vision in your mind firmly. Don't let go of it for anything. Repeat over and over," I tend to become what I expect to become and achieve what I expect to achieve."



If you commit yourself to this process you will begin to see improvement in both your delivery and in your relationship with your audience. You will be on the way to becoming the speaker you want to become. What's more, people will want to listen to what you have to say and your charisma quotient will increase significantly. It worked for me and it will for you.



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Profitable Speaking Tip on Using Humor From Mike Moore

This is a tip I follow faithfully. Every 6 to 8 minutes during your talk insert some form of humor. It can be a funny one liner, a cartoon or a short humorous anecdote. It does wonder for audience attention and enjoyment. Humor does makes great things happen.

Click here for more on using humor in your presentations.

Becoming a Well Paid Motivational Speaker

What follows are excerpts form my popular
SPECIAL REPORT " 121 Secrets to Profitable Speaking"

Every month I receive numerous emails from people all over
North America asking how to get into the business of speaking
for money. To respond to these many inquiries I produced this
popular audio speaking series. Here are seven timely tips
from my audio speaking system, to get you started on the path
to speaking for big money.


1. If you want to become a successful, well paid speaker you
must become well known. Promotion and publicity are vital to
your success.

2. Leave your promotional footprints wherever you go so people
find you easily.

3. After each speech ask those who hired you for a written
testimonial. Use these testimonials, or parts of them, in your
advertising and publicity. I have never had people refuse to
provide a testimonial for me. Sometimes I have had to remind
them, but no one has ever refused.

4.Access free publicity whenever possible. Write and submit
press releases frequently. Writers and editors are always
looking for new story material and your press release could
result in an interview and a story being written about you,
your work and/or your publications.

5. Some new speakers say that it is difficult to establish a
reputation as a speaker when many businesses are reluctant to
hire unknowns to in-service their employees. I solved this
problem by offering to speak free of charge ...with certain
conditions attached of course.

6. To get speaking engagements you must present yourself to
people looking for speakers. Every community has an abundance
of organizations, associations and service groups in need of
speakers for their conferences, banquets and in-service
sessions. Make yourself known to them.


7. Promote yourself and your products within each speech, but
in just the right dosage. Too much self promotion and you can
turn your audience against you. Too little and they might
ignore your products altogether.

Summary... 1. Decide on a topic
2. Prepare a dynamite 45 minute speech on your
chosen topic
3. Make sure it is laced with humor and stories
4. Know it so well that if I woke you and said
start in at the 10 minute mark you could.
5. Bring it to the local market then the world.
6. Advertise and promote like crazy.
7. Let word of mouth take over.


This is just a sample of what you will learn in my SPECIAL REPORT  "121 Secrets to Profitable Speaking".

Also included in the course are the following topics:

* How to prepare and deliver a great speech * How to really
connect with your audience * How to develop confidence *
Overcoming the fear of public speaking * How to write and
where to send press releases. * How to crack the lucrative
business in-service market * Establishing your fees MUCH MORE

To order my " 121Secrets to Profitable Speaking" visit here
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